Must be something in the water.

Too many boys, too many lads, not enough Men?

because society is all about castrating men right now. metrosexual anyone?

yes, we are a dying breed, this country has lost its defining roles, we no longer understand what makes a man a MAN or a woman a WOMAN, these terms have lost their meanings, and the lines have been blurred. Nowadays, a man cannot be difined by his work, men are always doing what used to be called, "womans work" and can still be seen as men, men are encouraged to" show their feelings" and to express themselves in ways that are more feminine. NOw im mnot saying this is "wrong" or "right" im merely saying what i have observed over the years and having done extensive research on the topic these are some of my findings. we ARE a dying breed, because our society has , in large part, made it almost shamefull to be defined in the old ways. In bygone years, a man could be seen by his peers as a MAN, by having a hard physical job, must support his woman, and his children, by being a very responsible person, financially and otherwise, his word was his bond, his physical build, you werent a man if you were a 90lb weakling, his virility, and yes, sadly, the size of his dick, mong other things. Now, every thing that defined MEN, can be bought at a drugstore, confidence in a can, viagra, bodybuilder shakes,weight loss weight gain, a mans job can be done by women , sometimes better than the men, firefighters, martial artist, boxers, presidnts of major corporations, etc etc etc. we have to redifine what makes a man aMAN, its all up in the air now. Its up to the coming generations to learn how best to define a gender, or even IF we should, we have so many genders now, ( which is FINALLY on a par with the rest of the world, they have five genders, usually) gayman, lesbian,( which can be best understood by accepting the spirit as having a gender, thus: physical male, +spiritual female= gay man, while physical female, +spiritual male, = lesbian, plus transgendered, transexual,intersexed, etc etc etc) that we cant keep track, lol. BUt to me, the mans MAN can be defined as , having courage, being responsible in thought word and deed, supporting his dependants, kind and gentle when possible, and capable of violence when needed, he doesnt back down, but doesnt start needless confrontation,he doesnt act to preserve his precious ego, he acts to preserve his precious honor, and is willing to die for it, he knws that there is something more valuable then himself, something he can and WILL die for, his children, or his wife, or his beliefs. there are many other little things in my opinion that define a man, but they mostly fall under those three headings, , responsible, and courageous, and humble .

don't forget cunnilingus skills.

what makes a man's man? the envy is that he gets all the girls